Neither breed nor sex can reliably promise the cuddliest individual. Breed descriptions may suggest general tendencies, but socialisation, past experiences, health and personal preference all shape how a cat responds to people. Broad statements that all males are friendlier or all females are more independent are not a sound way to choose a companion. If physical affection is important to you, meeting an adult cat with a known history can be more useful than selecting a kitten from a stereotype.
Ask how the cat behaves in familiar surroundings and remember that a new home may temporarily change its confidence. Give it choices and allow the relationship to develop. An affectionate cat can also have limits: enjoying cheek strokes does not mean wanting its belly touched or being held for long periods. Ask specifically about lap sitting, lifting and grooming tolerance; a cat described as affectionate may enjoy one form of contact and dislike another.
For product comparisons alongside this advice, see Velvet Nest and Sterling Court litter tray. The details below explain their sizes and uses.
Further reading: cats.org.uk; cats.org.uk; cats.org.uk; scottishspca.org.
Velvet Nest
Sterling Court litter tray
Taj-MeowHall