Direct answer: many cats simply prefer all four paws supported and the freedom to move away. Respecting that preference is safer than repeatedly lifting the cat to make them “get used to it”.
Rule out pain
A new objection to lifting, flinching or aggression can reflect discomfort. Ask a vet before treating it as a training issue.
Practise only what is necessary
Pair brief, well-supported handling with calm rewards, then put the cat down before they struggle. Never lift by the scruff, legs or front body alone.
Offer contact without restraint
Sit at the cat’s level, stroke only when invited and keep beds and hiding places lift-free zones.
A practical furniture note: The Koda Pod can support this routine where its current specifications suit your cat and room. Product furniture cannot diagnose or treat a health or behaviour problem.
